What usually starts off as a simple conversation usually leads to 'feelings that grow'. I'm talking about love here.
So, a certain brother recently called into a radio show to seek advice.
Brother man here has been in a relationship with his sweetheart and they have been dating for two years.
But the problem is that he does not see her as a prospective wife. Umjolo wanyisa shame. He is afraid that time is flying and he is seemingly leading her on.
Here is his story.... As per his words on radio... Thatha...
"I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now. Things are good, but I don't see myself marrying her. I love her personality, and we enjoy travelling and attending music events. We are in the same career, but despite all these common interests, I don't see myself getting married to her.
"This really bothers me because how can someone make me laugh and be so happy, yet I can't bring myself to see her as my wife? I have been having this internal conflict for some time, trying to understand, but i get no answers.
"I am afraid I am stringing her along, but how do I let her go when I don't know the real issue? Or could the issue be me? I have tried dating two other women while with her to see if my perception would change, but it didn't. But she is my peace and solace. What could be my blind spot here?"
Yeah Neh! Life or love? Umjolo wanyisa strue..
