Trends Mzansi February newsletter is pulling all the right strings

Trends Mzansi newsletter has dropped yet another dosage of inspiration. 

The February edition is set to amp you to chase your dreams. That is because dreams are valid and it is never too late to go for what you believe in.

This edition features: 

* How to make money while seated at home 

* Entertainer Oti Mabuse's biggest career swap 

* See how award winning musician Makhadzi is spreading the love

* Being February, find out how the power of love has the pedigree to entirely change your life 

* The petrol attendant who chose to follow her dreams and scored a university degree in the process

Get your digital copy from Pressreader using the link below and plant that seed of inspiration in your life. Once it starts germinating, you won't regret it.

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Anele Mdoda allegedly threatened with rape

Anele Mdoda, a well-known radio personality, recently shared a harrowing experience on social media where she was threatened with rape by an alleged Uber driver. The incident has sparked outrage and concern for the safety of women using e-hailing services.

According to Mdoda, she had ordered an Uber and selected the "don't talk to me" option, but the driver became upset and threatened her with rape. She managed to record the incident and shared it on social media, sparking a wave of support and outrage from her followers.

"I'm sorry you had to go through this, Anele," said journalist and presenter Heidi Giokos. "I've always said Uber drivers in Cape Town are the worst. My stomach is always tied when I take an Uber. And here's a clear example of what happens!"

Uber South Africa has since launched an investigation into the incident and has apologized for the driver's behavior. "What has been described is unacceptable and we have zero tolerance for this behavior," said an Uber spokesperson. "We are immediately and urgently looking into this matter. Where a driver is found to be in breach of our community guidelines, their access to the platform is immediately removed as the safety of everyone using the platform is a top priority."

Mdoda has since thanked her followers for their support and has announced that she will be pressing charges against the driver. "Uber has reached out and is taking it seriously. I won't comment further on the matter. Police are involved as well. Thank you for all the comments on this Uber saga, including the ones that say I am the one who is wrong. I am going to press charges today. Twitter won't make sure that man does not threaten another woman again. The law will. Have a great day further, because I will," she said.

The incident has highlighted the need for increased safety measures for women using e-hailing services and the importance of holding perpetrators of gender-based violence accountable.

Romance scammers just love the old, lonely ladies...

If you think Valentine's day is only for the young you are wrong!

 

Everyone, young and old, seem to be smitten by the goddess of love (Venus), in the month of February.

  

Sunny Sookoo is 79-years-old but is still in love with his 78-year-old wife, Maya with whom he tied the knot on February 14, 60 years ago.

  

Although it was an arranged marriage and Valentine's Day was unheard of those days, their love grew and they celebrated their diamond wedding jubilee on Valentine's Day surrounded by family.

  

Not so lucky was 64-year-old Isipingo grandmother who was seeking love on the online dating app, Badoo. She had been chatting to a 54-year-old Chatsworth man for three months when they decided it was time to meet up in the month of love.

  

The online lover picked up the granny from her Isipingo home and drove her to the Galleria Mall where she withdrew R2 000 of her Sassa grant money.

  

The man then drove her to Hazelemere Dam near Verulam where they spent a couple of hours, locked in each other's embrace.

  

After this passionate encounter the man then drove his date to a garage for her to freshen up, but when she returned, her lover was gone.

  

He had sped off with her bag, the R2000 and her cell phone. Apparently, he went to the Sibayo Casino where he lost R1 600 on the slot machines.

The desperate woman and her family contacted Reaction Unit South Africa (Rusa) and the alleged thief was caught at his mother's home in Montford.

  

Surprisingly, the suspect's 74 yearold mother did not shield her deviant son and let the officers from Reaction Unit South Africa whisk him away.

  

Apparently, he is a serial rapist previously been remanded in Westville Prison for the rape of a woman in the Maydon Wharf area.

  

Importantly, this case teaches us to be wary of social media where crooks and predators lurk to snare "easy" prey.

  

The Isipingo granny was none the wiser and was duped.

DiepCity star Sne buys new ride as she bags new acting gig

Actress Nompumelelo Vilakazi is beaming with joy after purchasing a brand-new car, and her friends and fans are celebrating her achievement. The rising star, known for her captivating performances on screen, took to social media to share her excitement, and her post was met with congratulations from fellow celebrities, including Vele Manenje, Velile Makhoba, and Siphesihle Ndaba.

Vilakazi's success in the entertainment industry is no surprise, given her talent and dedication to her craft. She gained recognition for her role as Snenhlanhla in the popular Mzansi Magic telenovela DiepCity, where she brought authenticity to her character. Her portrayal of the group's gossip and confidant earned her a spot in the hearts of audiences.

Although DiepCity was discontinued in 2023 after two seasons, Vilakazi's career continues to thrive. She recently secured a role in the three-part comedy series Isthembu Sika Msongelwa, where she plays a key role in the story of a polygamous taxi boss who reconnects with his high school sweetheart.

Vilakazi's new car is a testament to her hard work and dedication to her craft. Her achievement is an inspiration to many, and her fans are thrilled to see her succeed. As she continues to make waves in the entertainment industry, we can't wait to see what's next for this talented actress.

Congratulations to Nompumelelo Vilakazi on her new ride! May it be a symbol of her continued success and a reminder of her hard work and dedication to her craft.

Facebook shocker - grieving man receives inbox from mysterious man claiming to be the dad of his late wife's child

A listener on a phone in show on Kaya FM recently shared a deeply troubling experience following the death of his wife. After her passing, he received a message on Facebook from a stranger who claimed that his second-born child was not biologically his. The man alleged that he had an affair with the listener's late wife, which resulted in her pregnancy. According to this stranger, they had kept their relationship hidden out of respect for the listener's marriage.

After some time, the listener confronted the man, who provided evidence of the affair. Feeling profoundly betrayed, he is now seeking guidance on how to navigate this complex situation, especially since he has raised the child as his own.

The listener recounted, "My wife sadly passed away last year after a brief illness. Three months later, I received a message from a man on Facebook claiming my second child wasn't mine and that he was the biological father. I was in shock and chose not to respond initially. As time went on, I found myself looking at my son and questioning whether he truly was mine."

Eventually, he decided to engage with the man. He learned that this individual had previously worked with his wife and that they had been involved romantically. The listener discovered that while his wife confided in this man about her pregnancy, they agreed to keep it secret to protect their marriage. After leaving the company, they lost contact until he reached out upon hearing about her death.

In December, they met face-to-face where the stranger presented proof of their relationship. "This shattered my heart," said the listener. "I will never have answers from my late wife." He has kept this revelation from family and friends while trying to figure out his next steps.

The situation escalated when the man began pressuring him for a relationship with his son, giving him three months to discuss it with family or face legal action.

"I feel disrespected and confused about what to do next," he expressed. "Should I insist on a DNA test first? How do I approach my family? If it turns out he is indeed the father, can co-parenting even work? Should I consult a lawyer for guidance? Am I missing any crucial steps?"

Gugu's eviction from Big Brother Mzansi: A dream come true (sort of)

Gugu Ndabezitha, the 34-year-old traditional healer from Big Brother Mzansi Umlilo, had a premonition. Not of winning, mind you, but of her eviction. Apparently, Smash Afrika, in a bizarre prophetic dream, personally escorted her out of the Big Brother house. Who needs a crystal ball when you've got Smash Afrika's astral projection services?

Gugu, bless her heart, shared this dream with her housemates, who, naturally, interpreted it as a sign of impending victory. The irony is thicker than a Zulu warrior's shield. Her dream was a surprisingly accurate prediction.

Now, four auditions, three rejections, and one month in the house later, Gugu is taking her eviction with the grace of a seasoned yoga instructor. After all, this was only rock bottom – a particularly bouncy rock bottom, apparently equipped with a conveniently placed trampoline. She's soaring now, folks! Soaring! Though perhaps next time, she'll consult a slightly more reliable soothsayer than Smash Afrika in the spirit realm. Perhaps a psychic parrot? The possibilities are endless.

When love lingers, does revealing too much in a relationship destroy it? Celebs weighs in

Love is blind - so they say! 

But love is a beautiful thing and it does make the world go round. Those who've been fortunate to find love, ehhhhhm I mean glow in love🥰, can attest to that. 

While love can be beautiful, does revealing too much about your life destroy it? Many people are afraid of revealing their true selves to their partners as they fear losing them. 

Click, click bang! 

"Sometimes it's not even about your current partner but stems from past relationship experiences," noted Kgomotso Meso. "You might have been told your light was too bright, and now you're uncomfortable expressing yourself the way you'd like."

Yes we listening...

She added, "What I've observed with men is this feeling of not being enough. No matter how much you do, there's always another man who can bring more money or provide more than you."

That definitely is handful. But what do the men have to say about it? 

Renowned comedian Skhumba shared his sentiments on the hot issue. 

"As a man, you sometimes go out of your way to make a woman happy, only to realise it's still not enough. In the process, you neglect yourself trying to meet their expectations."

Ijob yijob but what are the misconceptions that people have about your job? SABC News anchor Mfundo Mabalane reveals hers

There is a popular street lingo which people use to describe their working lifestyles - "ijob yijob", which literally translates to "a job is a job".

You might find this a bit odd or must I say offish..., But society has an array of misconceptions when it comes to a person's job. 

Hold your horses. Many people are of the notion that those who work at distilleries or breweries are always drunk as they are supposedly permitted to drink zingakashayi (before knocking off).

Some people believe that when one works for for an airline, they get a free pass to travel the world. Ziyakhala ke manje. 

Popular SABC News anchor Mfundo Mabalane pointed out that, as a news anchor, people believe she is closer to politicians than she really is. 

"They think you can just dial up any politician and have a chat about anything, but this is not always the case. I think, in most instances, those who build relationships with politicians are reporters, not necessarily news anchors."

What sort of job do you do and what are some of the misconceptions that people have about your job? 

Umjolo wanyisa shame! “I love my girlfriend but I don’t see myself marrying her”

What usually starts off as a simple conversation usually leads to 'feelings that grow'. I'm talking about love here. 

So, a certain brother recently called into a radio show to seek advice. 

Brother man here has been in a relationship with his sweetheart and they have been dating for two years. 

But the problem is that he does not see her as a prospective wife. Umjolo wanyisa shame. He is afraid that time is flying and he is seemingly leading her on. 

Here is his story.... As per his words on radio... Thatha...

"I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now. Things are good, but I don't see myself marrying her. I love her personality, and we enjoy travelling and attending music events. We are in the same career, but despite all these common interests, I don't see myself getting married to her.

"This really bothers me because how can someone make me laugh and be so happy, yet I can't bring myself to see her as my wife? I have been having this internal conflict for some time, trying to understand, but i get no answers.

"I am afraid I am stringing her along, but how do I let her go when I don't know the real issue? Or could the issue be me? I have tried dating two other women while with her to see if my perception would change, but it didn't. But she is my peace and solace. What could be my blind spot here?"

Yeah Neh! Life or love? Umjolo wanyisa strue..