No matter how much you try to avoid it – arguments are bound to happen in your relationship.
Often, tackling them head on will make your relationship stronger.
Often, tackling them head on will make your relationship stronger.
However, Jeff Guenther, a licensed professional counsellor on social media has revealed the one sign it won't work out between you and your boo.
"As a therapist, I can almost guarantee a relationship won't last if I see this one thing happening," he wrote.
And it has nothing to do with leaving dirty socks on the floor or not getting on with your future mother-in-law.
Instead, it's all to do with how much effort BOTH of you are putting in.
"If one partner is consistently putting in more work, more effort and more labour than the other," he explained.
"It's going to tip the balance eventually."
The therapist went on to say this will ensure resentment and and anger build up – often leading to too much baggage to come back from.
Jeff added that the person who has been lacking in the relationship will be stunned when it falls apart and act blind sighted.
However, the one who has been putting the work in and has finally had enough will have plenty of receipts to show them they had tried to discuss the problem before.
"So, be honest with yourself, are you the one putting in less effort?" Jeff asked.
"Because if you don't change it could spell doom."
The clip posted to his TikTok account @therapyjeff has since gone viral with over 125k views and 14k likes.
