Real House Wives of Durban star Nonkululeko Williams recently celebrated her 42nd birthday and she reflected on life's challenges, being a reality TV star and her future.
"I could have not been more proud of everything that I've been through, the hurt, the failures . . . each and every thing that I experienced . . . I'm celebrating life, I'm celebrating . . . (and) I'm celebrating my children," she told TshisaLIVE.
"Time heals everything. The very same people that called me out . . . I had to remind myself that I'm also human . . . I know who I am ... people don't know the full story . . . I'm not bothered at all, I know what I stand for . . . Most people don't know what a prayerful women I am. I know the bible like I know the back of my hand." she added.
Nonku studied theology and says that she does not focus on the negative because she is a prayerful women.
"I have nothing to hide but a lot of people don't believe it . . . It was 2005 when I heard the audible voice of God . . . it sounded like a trumpet . . . it called out my name, it said 'Nonkululeko' and I responded saying 'yes Lord'. I saw a vision of Jesus Christ hanging on the cross with a crown and blood dripping on his face . . . I was chosen."
After getting divorced, Nonku says that she is not looking to get married again.
"I'm still young, I know that I will find someone who is right but I know I do not want to get married again . . . I've got three kids . . . I knew before I got married that it wasn't it . . . I divided a paper in half and I wrote all the reasons why I should get married and all the reasons why I shouldn't, and I think there were two reasons why I should but I went ahead and got married anyway.
"I've had right relationships before but I want someone that will be perfect in my eyes.
"When nature calls, obviously I'm human. I'll find myself indulging in sin . . . I told God that I do not want to get married again, but at the same time I'm longing to have a partner . . . I'm not saying that I don't sin, I don't indulge . . . in my weakness God makes me stronger." — Times