Monday 31 August 2020

Man is crazy about his mum's beauty. Attempts to bed her more than once #GirlTalkZA #MondayMotivation

Is it lust, is it poverty or it's just plain mad? 

Africa's ethics are fast going to the dogs and morality has reached its lowest point. 

A Zimbabwean man was arraigned before the Mutate Civil Courts last week on charges of attempted rape.

The 32 year old man is being accused of attempting to rape his 51 year old mother on more than one occasion. 

He is believed to be crazily in love with the beauty of the woman who have birth to him. 

The case was heard when Future Matya bared her disappointment when she was seeking a protection order against Severino Mhosva, her biological son.

She also asked the magistrate to evict him from her house as he had proved too difficult to live with. He is being accused of stealing from her. 

The accused chose not to attend the court case but magistrate, Ms Notebulgar Muchineripi heard the case in his absence.

His mother, who carried him in her womb for nine months, said he had attempted to be intimate with her on countless occasions.

"I have never heard of a son who lusts after his own mother. He knocks on my bedroom door all night, begging me to let him in. I cannot take it anymore and want him out of my house.

"I no longer have peace in my own house. I bought a residential stand and toiled to build the house after his father's death, now he wants to evict me from my house," said the elderly woman who believes that Mhosva is harassing her to force her out of her house.

The son was once arraigned before the same court on charges of attempted murder. This after he stabbed his mother with a knife for denying him sex. 

Ms Muchineripi granted the protection order in Matya's favour. 

But this all raises the questions of morality. How can a son lust after his biological mother to such an extent? Is it mental illness or stupidity or there is a traditional hoodoo that's haunting the boy? Because this just is not normal. 

Friday 28 August 2020

#FridayFeeling: The most weird shoes you can find in South Africa

South Africa is considered as the fashion capital of the world. Fashionista's and stylists often rock up on the red carpet wearing the best and most extravagant outfits money can buy. 

Women just love their shoes in these parts of the world. From those shoes we don't know by name to Armadillo shoes, to Julian Hake's Mojito, Mzansi has played host to all types of shoes. 

There are shoes that fit all styles and takes. From spikes to dangerously high heels that keep you wondering how some people walk in them. 

Shoe collectors can attest that designers have always experimented with out-there new ideas, some of which (like giant flatforms) have broken through to the mainstream trend-sphere, while some have really just broken our ankles.

The scene is constantly set alight with Chinese foot-binding to curling great Medieval winkle pickers, ancient cultures loved an extreme shoe shape, often completely disabling their feet for the love of fashion.

Christian Louboutin remains one of the most sought after shoes in the country. If you have a pair of these in your closet then you are good to go. 

But weird footwear does not always translate to unwearable footwear. Some of the most beautiful creations have come from out-there ideas. 

So which are some of the weird shoes you have ever worn and how much did you pay for them? 

#FridayFeeling: Lady Zamar opens up about Sjava incident on Instagram Live

Lady Zamar opens up, but this time around to everyone who was willing to watch her Live on Instagram, on Thursday night.

During the early hours of Thursday, 28th of August, Sjava dropped a video on social media, addressing the rape allegation from his ex-lover Zamar.

He stood on the fact that he never raped her, but they dated, and hr never showed her true love, because he was in another relationship, which she knew about before they dated.

However, Lady Zamar voiced out during her IG Live session with South Africans.

The Collide hitmaker calls the BET award winner a liar. She also detailed the ugly experience on being raped by Jabulani.

"Yes, he terrifies me, because he raped me. He is a rapist to me. I don't know how he has treated other people…"

Zamar says she went into a relationship with him after being raped as she had no choice.

She also revealed that she couldn't stop him during the process because he was bigger than her and she had her mouth stuffed.

Wednesday 19 August 2020

etv secures UEFA Champions League rights

etv continues changing the broadcast game and it has made premium sporting events available to all South African's.

Ever since they introduced Openview HD, e media holdings have been busy at work trying to add excitement to free television. 

Viewers only buy the decoder and they can watch television for free. They do not have a subscriber service and they generate their income through adverts. 

They currently have over a million subscribers and their decoders are selling like hot cakes in neighbouring nations such as Zimbabwe, Botswana, Zambia, Malawi and Namibia.  

The broadcasting giant currently broadcasts the English Premier League, the Bundesliga and they have now added more football to their list. 

*drum roll* etv are now the new broadcasters of the UEFA Women's Champions League with immediate effect. 

Football lovers will be able to watch all the action live on the broadcasters sports and news channels. 

Taking to Twitter, etv confirmed their latest addition to their ever expanding lineup. 

This is a huge relief to those who are not able to afford Dstv. 

Kwesta stands out with @JamesonSA

In this fast-paced digital age where trends come and go at a mile a minute, it's hard for a fresh and authentic musical voice to cut through all the online noise and be heard. The inaugural Rap A Verse with Kwesta set out to change that, with Jameson Irish Whiskey allowing rappers the opportunity to stand out from the musical crowd by making an impression upon, and eventually recording a track with SAMA-winning and record-setting rapper, Kwesta.

Forming part of Jameson Connects: The Stay Inn, a playbook of live virtual events brought to you by JamesonRap A Verse with Kwesta attracted 1 420 competition entries over a 5 week period, with Kwesta enduring the unenviable task of combing through each and every one to select a winner. 

It was ultimately Katlehong-based rapper, K1 Jaxe, who was crowned Rap A Verse's first king, receiving a trip for two to the Jameson Distillery in Ireland, but also the once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to record a track with SA rap icon, Kwesta. 

K1 Jaxe's dream has now, quite literally, manifested itself into reality with the release of 'Dreams' alongside Kwesta.  

"Being in the studio with one of my idols is a day I'll never forget and I'm so happy that it happened through the Jameson Connects platform. Even thinking about it now still gives me goosebumps!" K1 Jaxe enthuses when asked about the first time he met SAMA-winning rapper Kwesta. 

"After sanitising my hands, I had my back to the entrance and I remember him walking in. You think you're ready to hear Kwesta's voice but you're really not. He embraced me like we've known each other for like 10 years or more. While I was recording my verse, I could see Kwesta and he was reciting the lyrics with me word-for-word. There was a camera crew there that day and I hope none of them caught me there, crying a bit. But that was an amazing moment and I'm so grateful to Jameson that we were able to capture that on video, because it will always be captured in my mind's eye," K1 Jaxe says.

"The recording of the track was very special and the atmosphere was great," Kwesta explains when questioned about the recording process of their collaboration. "K1 Jaxe was in the moment and he didn't let it get too big for him, he also didn't allow himself to act bigger than the moment. He was there and he was present - and he was pretty smooth."

The song itself is melodically rich and textured, and lyrically rooted in aspirational pursuits, driven by two rappers who are the embodiment of what it means to chase your dreams.

 "The lyrics are specific to mine and K1 Jaxe's dreams and what it took to get them, or what it's taking right now to get to them, so it encapsulates all the things we spoke about before we made the song. So it came out just the way it should have," Kwesta declares proudly. 

"Jameson is a brand that makes together better, we provide a platform where talent can connect, collaborate and create," explains Beatrice Marfleet, Marketing Manager of Jameson and Irish Whiskey at Pernod Ricard SA. "We were honoured to partner with Kwesta on this search for emerging talent and look forward to seeing how K1 Jaxe's career develops and where 'Dreams' take him."

K1 Jaxe and Kwesta's striking single 'Dreams' is available to download exclusively on the Jameson Irish Whiskey website, for free from 14 - 21 August. 

Friday 14 August 2020

Rhythm City's Mampho fumes after being labelled for twerking. #WomensMonth #GirlTalkZA

Men will salivate all day long to watch a lady twerking. But again, is there anything wrong with twerking? Is it not a routine dance? Is twerking meant for women with loose morals? 

It's not everyday that you hear of someone complaining because of twerking. 

Well, Itu Bokaba (popularly known as Mampho on etv soapie Rhythm City) got more than she bargained for after being dragged for twerking. 

The vivacious Bokaba said she twerked on set as part of the script but someone labelled her with very derogatory comments. 

"I was slut shamed for twerking on set today, even though it was part of a scene we were shooting. Someone said: 'Wow look at the mothers of today.' Like really!" she shared on Instagram.

Bokaba recently introduced her baby to the world and many of her fans welcomed her bundle of joy. 

So someone on her set clearly thought that she wasn't supposed to twerk. That person was obviously of the opinion that only single young girls are supposed to be twerking. 

In a free democratic South Africa surely everyone is entitled to their opinion. 

Bokaba added that she was free to express her sexuality even though she had become her mum. 

Without mentioning names, she told the person to get on a bike and get a life. 

Mzansi streets are now envious to know who that person is. 

Meet Faith Nketsi the courier girl #GirlTalkZA

Faith Nketsi has taken to social media to share a video of her personally delivering promotional packages for her recently launched cosmetics line, Fe Beauty.

Faith Nketsi shared a video showcasing the promotional drop-offs for her new cosmetics line on Instagram on Wednesday, 12 August 2020. 

The social media sensation personally delivered goodie bags to some of her favourite influencers and friends to mark the launch of Fe Beauty.

Faith appears to have shifted her focus from music after the ridicule she faced in response to her debut album, Disrespectful, in 2019.

Since then, she has been promoting beauty products from other brands before the launch of her own brand on Sunday, 9 August 2020. The reveal of the new business venture was specifically announced to commemorate Women's Day. 

Along with the announcement of the cosmetics range, Faith shared a tutorial video to provide her followers with ideas on how to use the eyeshadow palette.

Sunday 9 August 2020

#WomensDay: Women taking their throne through #poetry


The Covid-19 pandemic has seen many people turning to literature - either poetry, fiction or nonfiction stories, essays, novels - to embrace the new reality.

Life under lockdown is the new normal and literature (in particular poetry) has that power to strengthen the mind especially in these difficult times.

More and more writers and poets are coming up with that reading gem the world is craving for. People are being encouraged to read more in order to shift from negative dimensions to positivity. 

Watching TV documentaries and news filled with Covid-19 deaths, coronavirus related job losses and poverty will only crash your soul by causing panic. 

Why not pick up a book and read those intriguing short stories and poems?

Better still, why not get your copy of the Afro Poetry Times from the PressReader App or the PressReader website and inspire your life under lockdown. 

This edition features:

* Lots of poems from Africans including deep thought poetry. 

* A South African author talks about her 'Bare' series. 

* Writing competitions anyone can enter and win big. 

* Book Reviews

* How some poets are getting Covid-19 relief grants

* Botswana tennis star bounces into the game with a debut book

* A globe trotting Zimbabwean poet shares her story

* Zindzi Mandela's poem to her dad andots more

The Afro Poetry Times is a monthly magazine which promotes Africa's poetry and literary arts to the world. 

It's driven by passion, originality, creativity and love. It is the literary jewel. 

You can get the digital copy every month or subscribe for your issue on the world's leading digital press distributor - PressReader. 

Download the PressReader App or get your copy from http://www.pressreader.com/south-africa/afro-poetry-times/20200801

#WomensDay: Zozibini Tunzi partners with 1st For Women for series that turns fear into strength

Reigning Miss Universe Zozibini Tunzi is stepping forward this Woman's Day to make her voice heard as she partners with 1st for Women in a national campaign dubbed Living Fearless is Liberating.

The 26-year-old, who has become a beacon by encouraging women to come forward and be counted, admits that fearlessness does not mean being immune to fear, but simply being courageous enough in how one lives their life.

"And liberation in today's world could mean something like being free from the imprisonment of our own minds. It also means being free from societal standards that are forced on us on a daily basis. All of which we are aiming to promote to all women," she said.

She admitted that she, too, had fears that she had confronted.

"I have had so many fears in my life. One of the most recent ones being that I would be rejected by people as their Miss Universe, that I wasn't enough, and would fail because I looked different to any other Miss Universe people were used to. But I soon realised that what I thought was my weakness, was actually my strength.

"I tapped into it, and I owned who I am completely. Now I am confident, comfortable and fearless because I turned my fear into a strength."

Experts agree that while fear has its benefits and is a vital response to physical and emotional danger, for women, fear is omnipresent.

Author and speaker Monica Berg explains in her book, Fear Is Not an Option, that fear is powerful enough to keep us from achieving our goals, and living our best lives, said Tunzi.

"Once you decide fear isn't an option, you are left with only the choice to change, to shift your consciousness, or to take action," she said.

Gender inequality is one of the biggest challenges faced by women across the world, according to Tunzi, her participation in such campaigns to further champion the message of impartiality for women regardless of race or creed, is important.

"I will always stand by my stance of women taking up space. Taking up space means so many things, but it starts with recognising your right to belong in spaces; to exist. It means to be unapologetic for our opinions and voices. It means to be bold and confident in spaces you occupy. It means to show up and boss up," she added.

Her campaign seeks to encourage women to break free from judgment, the fear of criticism and the fear of not being enough.

"Living fearlessly is liberating," she said.
"That's the message we want to impart to the women of South Africa this Women's Day and beyond.

Here are tips from Tunzi for conquering fear and becoming fearless:

Learn to understand what your fear is and embrace it.

Write down your fears so that you can look at them face-to-face. When you are done facing them, prove them wrong.

It's not as bad you think. These are words I always recite to myself. We always imagine the worst, and most of the time, the reality is not as scary as how we imagine it.

Be optimistic! Always try to change fear into a challenge.

Tuesday 4 August 2020

Afro Poetry Times August issue takes African #poetry and literary arts to the world

The Covid-19 pandemic has seen many people turning to literature - either poetry, fiction or nonfiction stories, essays, novels - to embrace the new reality.

Life under lockdown is the new normal and literature (in particular poetry) has that power to strengthen the mind especially in these difficult times.

More and more writers and poets are coming up with that reading gem the world is craving for. People are being encouraged to read more in order to shift from negative dimensions to positivity. 

Watching TV documentaries and news filled with Covid-19 deaths, coronavirus related job losses and poverty will only crash your soul by causing panic. 

Why not pick up a book and read those intriguing short stories and poems?

Better still, why not get your copy of the Afro Poetry Times from the PressReader App or the PressReader website and inspire your life under lockdown. 

This edition features:

* Lots of poems from Africans including deep thought poetry. 

* A South African author talks about her 'Bare' series. 

* Writing competitions anyone can enter and win big. 

* Book Reviews

* How some poets are getting Covid-19 relief grants

* Botswana tennis star bounces into the game with a debut book

* A globe trotting Zimbabwean poet shares her story

* Zindzi Mandela's poem to her dad andots more

The Afro Poetry Times is a monthly magazine which promotes Africa's poetry and literary arts to the world. 

It's driven by passion, originality, creativity and love. It is the literary jewel. 

You can get the digital copy every month or subscribe for your issue on the world's leading digital press distributor - PressReader. 

Download the PressReader App or get your copy from http://www.pressreader.com/south-africa/afro-poetry-times/20200801

Monday 3 August 2020

#PhoneReview: The new #Redmi Note 9S is the real deal priced at R4699

Xiaomi smartphones have always punched above their weight, especially when it comes to getting more specs for your bucks. The Redmi Note 9s is no different.

On the device we reviewed, the Chinese manufacturer packed in 128GB of storage, 6GB of RAM along with the Snapdragon 720G, which puts the phone in the mid-tier market segment.

Thankfully, it comes with all the usual Google apps and services, and features Android 10 and Xiaomi's own interface, MIUI11.

This makes it easy to set up, sync and get going without having to search for loopholes and workarounds – something that is affecting devices from rival Huawei.

There are a bunch of third-party apps as well as Xiaomi's MI apps, but these can be disabled or uninstalled easily if it becomes too much of a hassle for that chic look some love.

The battery is unusually large at 5 020mAh and will last you a full day and more – even if you are a heavy user.
The downside, however, is that it does take longer than expected to charge – almost two hours – although it comes with a 22.5W fast charger that connects via USB-C.

It's strange that there are no headphones in the box. However, a 3.5mm headphone jack is retained at a time when most flagship devices have ditched this vital component.

Make sure you immediately cover the phone in the plastic casing provided to avoid scratches as the quad camera sticks out at the back of the phone. The camera is magical for this tier. The 48MP main camera has an 8MP ultra wide-angle lens, a 2MP depth sensor and a sublime 5MP macro lens.

The macro lens was easily a favourite, especially for foodies and those who like to get close – I mean, really close – to their subjects. Just look at the cheesy nachos picture (above) I took on the day the mighty Real Madrid won the LaLiga title, again.

On the front, the selfie camera is 16MP and is located in the screen at the top – which makes more sense than placing it to either side of the screen as you tend to lose real estate that way.

Speaking of the screen, Xiaomi says it comes with nano coating and Gorilla Glass 5, while the screen dimensions are just 1cm off on both the top and the sides of the phone.

The entire phone measures 16.5cm by 7.5cm and weighs a slightly heavy 209g. It is a large device and can be a bit of an irritation if you have small hands. This has led to some calling it a phablet – a cross between a phone and a tablet.
Its security features include facial recognition and fingerprint scanner, which is located on the right side of the phone with the power button and volume keys.

However, we must note that privacy concerns regarding Xiaomi devices have been raised this year, with some reports suggesting that there has been unauthorised collection of data.

To be fair, these concerns have been levelled at all the major smartphone manufacturers.

Coming in at R5 299 for the 128GB and
R4 699 for the 64GB version, this phone is easily one of the easiest recommendations I've made in a while.

Rare glimmer of hope hits South Africa as Covid-19 active cases decline by 10%

There is, finally, a glimmer of hope at the end of the awful Covid-19 tunnel: as we report today, the number of active cases across the country has declined by 10% over the past week. 

Although the total number of confirmed Covid cases has now passed the 500 000 mark and deaths are still at high levels, the reality is that recovery numbers are also increasing, to the point where now almost 70% of those who have been infected by the coronavirus have recovered. That number will only get higher with time.

As President Cyril Ramaphosa pointed out, it is too early to roll out the vuvuzelas of celebration and, indeed, there might be those in the government who would accuse us of sparking reckless behaviour from people who might think the worst is over.

That is not our intention, but we are also concerned that, in a pandemic such as this, the public should be given accurate figures and that these should not be withheld or massaged to get people to act in a certain way.

We've already seen how the information around the dangers of cigarettes has been manipulated to justify the ongoing ban.

For now, though, let's enjoy the moment of hope.